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Are you curious about developing friendship skills in kids? Join me in today’s episode as I explore this vital topic with Dr. Eileen Kennedy-Moore, a renowned psychologist and author. We’ll dive into the common myths surrounding children’s self-esteem and why these misconceptions might be holding them back. You’ll discover how focusing on connection, competence, and choice can help your child develop a healthy sense of self and navigate social challenges with confidence.

We’ll also tackle the crucial distinction between bullying and ordinary meanness, offering strategies for parents to address each situation appropriately. For post-traumatic parents, Dr. Kennedy-Moore shares insights on managing personal triggers and fostering empathy in your parenting approach. Additionally, we’ll discuss the impact of social media on children’s friendships and how to guide them in building genuine connections.

This episode is full of thoughtful discussions and practical strategies to support your child’s social development. Whether you’re dealing with friendship struggles or simply want to enhance your child’s social skills, this conversation offers valuable perspectives and tools to help you along the way. Tune in now!

More about Dr. Eileen Kennedy-Moore:

Eileen Kennedy-Moore, PhD, (also known as “Dr. Friendtastic”) is an author, psychologist, and mom of four, based in Princeton, NJ. She is the creator of the Kids Ask Dr. Friendtastic podcast, where she answers questions from children about making and keeping friends. Her blog, Growing Friendships, on Psychology Today, has over 5 million views. Dr. Kennedy-Moore has been featured many times in major media, including Live with Kelly and Ryan and The New York Times. Her recent books include Moody Moody Cars (for ages 4-8), Growing Friendships (for ages 6-12), and Kid Confidence (for parents).

 

Topics covered on Developing Friendship Skills in Kids:

  1. What are the common myths about children’s self-esteem, and why are they misleading?
  2. How can post-traumatic parents help their children focus on connection, competence, and choice to build a healthy sense of self?
  3. Why is it important to distinguish between bullying and ordinary meanness, and how can parents address each?
  4. How can post-traumatic parents manage their triggers when their children’s social struggles arise?
  5. What strategies can parents use to encourage empathy and effective communication in their children?
  6. How does the concept of a “quiet ego” contribute to a child’s development, and why is it beneficial?
  7. In what ways can parents support their children in navigating social feedback and building resilience?
  8. What are the implications of labeling every negative interaction as bullying, and how can this affect children?

 

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“How can I give my kids a normal childhood, when mine was anything but?” Post-Traumatic Parenting is the podcast for anyone who has ever asked themselves that question. Robyn Koslowitz, Ph.D., clinical psychologist and Post-Traumatic Parent, combines the fields of post-traumatic recovery and growth with our best understanding of how to raise Little Humans. Through interviews with experts in the fields of behavior science, psychology, trauma, and child development, as well as interviews with toy developers, children’s book authors, and anyone else who makes childhood a delight, Dr. Koslowitz explores how trauma impacts our parenting, and how to hack our traumas into superpowers and super-parenting.

Each week, Dr. Koslowitz unpacks how to survive and thrive as a Post-Traumatic Parent. She shares behind-the-scenes insights into the research that underlies what we know about parenting, child development, and trauma recovery. Each podcast provides actionable tips about how to transform our Post-Traumatic Parenting and how to turn our parenting journey into a post-traumatic growth experience. Dr. Koslowitz interviews some of the famous names in these fields, and some experts you’ve never heard of (but should have!). Ready to go from survivor to thriver? Ready to become the parent you’ve always dreamed of being? Join us!